Thursday, 2 January 2014

Day 2: 6mi. walk - for walking's sake...

I thought I was walking to work today. I did walk there but found the place locked up and empty... so walked back again.

It was a pleasant enough walk though, sunny and bright and not too cold. Fred even stayed close by my side when I let him go off lead in the woods - that was a first!

I feel quite worn out though. Starting January with a rest day was a good idea after all - following the Peak District walks I think I needed a day off! Not that I'll get to sit around and chill now I'm back home - laundry needs doing, the place needs a thorough clean...

Wednesday, 1 January 2014

Day One: in which nothing happened

Thought I'd put a picture in of us
walking in the Peak District...
So I signed up for Janathon: a month of daily exercise and blogging. Today is Day One... here's what happened.
  • Torrential rain.
  • From 10-3ish, we drove back from Peak District where we spent our holidays.
  • Torrential rain meant that even Fred the dog had no interest in leaving the car for a wee at any of the rest stops. Pulled me back to the car immediately!
  • Arrived to a freezing boat, as expected.
  • Turned on immersion heater - it blew the mains. At time of this writing, we haven't got power back yet.
  • I am not exercising in a January downpour with the prospect of a cold shower (if any) at the end of it!

Upshots:
  • Fire's going nicely.
  • I didn't eat food when I wasn't hungry today. That's another resolution, one I can keep every day as it's not weather dependent!
Tomorrow's plan should go ahead - a minimum of 1.5 hours' walking (45 minutes each way to/from work) and if my new Yoga DVD arrives for strengthening the back, then that as well.

Oh and perhaps I should make plans to find a shower somewhere.

Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Ouchies and fitness

I've been struggling with a sore lower back for a number of days now. Quite disabling! I think I know where it comes from - sleeping on a very soft bed in very contorted positions due to it being a double bed which I was sharing with both the Mr. and our 25kg dog. Who spreads out!

So I look forward to getting better. Given that I have a slow-moving flu as well right now I'm just resting my back and the rest of my body with it... and that's fine for now... but I've been planning to get a bit fitter anyway and just the right challenge has come along!

Not just a fitness challenge but also a better commitment to this blog? Jackpot! That's what the Janathon is there for. Come January I plan to - I'm supposed to - well I'll say it, I COMMIT to! - exercising daily and blogging daily. I may or may not run.......

Those of you who've been following my posts know that I won't stick to one topic. I never do! So if fitness and all that isn't for you, I'll still talk about all sort of other things as they happen. And the other way round - there will probably be a few visitors to this blog who wonder about the sheer randomness of this and to you I say: welcome, and I'm not sorry!

Saturday, 23 November 2013

Autumn walking

Since getting Fred I've been out and about so much more than ever. When he needs to go, I have to go... and I walk to work with him, trying different routes, and getting to see the city on foot - it's lovely!
There will probably be a few picture posts of things seen on my walks - here's a start.
I live in a beautiful place!








Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Housewifely skills: sewing (I'm loving it!)

When we moved in, all curtains were dark green. Curtains on the windows and curtains to hide storage - all green. I'm not a fan of green!

So I decided, how hard can it be to make my own curtains? All straight lines to sew, no? - nevermind that I hadn't sewed since middle school when I learned it in craft class and have no memory of ever making anything useful there. But I had this idea, I roughly remember where the thread goes and how to feed the fabric in so let's have a go.

I borrowed a machine, got some gorgeous fabrics in red (for windows) and gold (for storage) and off I went!

The first two curtains I had to simply throw away. Turns out everything wasn't quite as straightforward as I'd thought, and certainly my seams were anything but straight! But, having started, I really had little choice but to continue. And I needed those green curtains gone! So I kept at it. One curtain a day, frustratingly slow, but work progressed... and by the time I was finished with the windows, I looked forward to starting on the storage curtains!

Window curtains.
Storage curtains in gold.
These were done quite quickly as there really wasn't that much storage to cover - under the desk, under the bed, and in the spare room. By then I knew I enjoyed this and I actively looked for something new to do! Still maintaining mostly straight sewing, my somewhat more ambitious project was sofa cushions. We had three sofa cushions, two of them blue and one orange, and in keeping with the colour scheme I got some red fabric and made covers for the cushions. A simple design - basically folded in like an envelope, so there are no buttons or zips.
Sofa cushions (bad quality pic, sorry)
Following those, I couldn't leave the seat cushions of the lounge chairs alone... and as I had enough red fabrid from the sofa cushions left over, I covered the seat cushions as well. That was a bit more ambitious: those covers aren't square but have rounded edges, and they have straps to attach them to the chairs! Again, I learned on the job, and now all cushions in the lounge are covered with the same red fabric.
Seat cushions on lounge chairs
What now?? All household fabrics I could think of were done. My next project was another big step up: a fleece jumper for Fred! 

He suffers from the cold. I needed a jumper for him to wear at home overnight, and while there are jumpers for sale online, I wanted something quite custom made for his requirements. Making this jumper required cutting, measuring, and various other new skills I hadn't tried before... and it worked! Ta-da, here's Fred's jumper which he loves to bits now and he fights with me when I try to take it off - which I do try when we go outside, no self-respecting dog should be seen in his PJ's in public! But he'd rather keep it on all the time.
Fred in his new jumper, ready for his walk.
What are the special characteristics of this jumper, you may well ask? -
  • It's tight in the chest, hugging him
  • No sleeves as he still often pees on his front legs accidentally
  • He can still go to the toilet even though it's long in the back, as his tail holds it up
  • The length and looseness of the back (the 'cape') means he can tuck his legs in for warmth
I posted a picture of it on the rescue group's Facebook page to tell them what I'd done and I've had three people say they'd like to order one! Since I enjoy making them, this might become a business - as a friend calls them, 'Cosy Capes' for dogs - watch this space!
 

Monday, 4 November 2013

Can't we just be happy?

Life is wonderful right now. Loving so completely and being loved the same way in return is amazing. And I love our home, my current job, Fred the dog - this married life is truly beyond my wildest dreams.

So why does this make me feel... selfish?

I observe - thanks to God and my always reasonable husband I don't have to act on impulses - within myself, that I somehow can't be comfortable being comfortable. And I'm not sure if that is a good or a bad thing!

A bad thing: arguments for this unease being negative - I've been through more hard times than many at my age. I've been through lean years. I've served God faithfully where I was, single for years, earning less than I could have by choosing to work for His Kingdom at a Christian charity. Why shouldn't I accept blessing without drawbacks? God is good!

But, could this unease be positive - a God thing? So many people are worse off than me. How can I sit on my blessings when I could help others? Could we foster or adopt? (the potential for pain and heartache, hard work and overwhelm are vast!) Volunteer more? Then again, how can I let Mr. shoulder the burden of providing for us; volunteering feels like indulging myself too - assuaging my need to feel like I'm helping others - when I could find ways to contribute to our finances?

See the problem is, both lines of reasoning look valid to me. And I know I have this sense of unease. But which is right? What is God calling me - us - to do, if anything?

Thursday, 24 October 2013

Turning points

I just turned 33, and on my birthday I reflected about the year past... 32 was one of the turning point years of my life, a year when almost everything changed.

I've had a few of them: 15, my mother's death; 18, my aunt's (who was my foster mother) death; 21/22, becoming a Christian and moving to the USA.

Now when I was 32, everything changed again:
  • I got engaged to the love of my life
  • Married him legally in January
  • Married him officially in March
  • Quit my job
  • Went to the Caribbean for the honeymoon of my wildest dreams
  • Moved cities
  • Moved onto a boat
  • Got a dog: that truly affirms 'we're making a home here' doesn't it?

At each of these turning points, I could never have foreseen where they would take me! That's the beauty, and the terror, of the unpredictability that is life. The turning point at 32 has now happened: where will this take us? - and I do say 'us' because now and forever, I'm no longer one. I'm part of a unit, a team, and things that happen, happen to 'us' and 'we' are going to deal with them.

Marriage is an incredible thing.

Just over six months in, I'm only beginning to discover the depths of it. And I can't begin to count the ways in which being married to this specific man blesses me; he is truly perfect for me. He obviously isn't perfect, as such; nobody is -   God knows I'm not - but he is for me, or perhaps better said, we suit each other perfectly.